Scorpio men, especially mad Scorpio men, should not be messed with, and when they do get upset, it is best to diffuse the situation the best you can rather than stoke the flames. I hate arguments and confrontations and i always try my hardest for my partner to undertsand him better and not hurt his feelings but he is confrontational type and arguments exhaust me. i asked him if ive done anything wrong he said that hE is just busy at work but im getting paranoid coZ he is not acting usual.im getting crazy now.. :(. The Scorpio Man likes having space. He has dropped off the face of the earth but yet when I do see him for a few minutes , he is great! Tell him how you feel. He replied with the 'take care line' and that's it. 10. Genuine Confusion Scorpio men are emotional guys. So that brought back memories.. I've been dating a new Scorpio for 3 months now that I fell in love with almost right away. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on February 22, 2013: The only advice I can offer is to remind you that a relationship is a two way street. The messages he sent me were slaughtering and he even threatened to put our rude conversations all over Facebook. This is so helpful! So now it's been a bit over 2 weeks and I haven't heard from him, but I have been emailing him all the time and I know everyone said that I should ignore him. Im 17 and the scorpio ive been talking to is 17 also. We were fine I thought then suddenly he just stopped calling and he usually calls me everyday. He did not talk to me at all . Rated all ups!! I M REALLY CONFUSED how can we both manage. What do I do with this friendship???!:((. After reading all the thread and many many others more I realized he is just like whatever you guys had described. They'd compliment my fashion sense, my work ethic, and tell me I'm the most interesting person they've ever met. But, he will suddenly disappear for a few days. Tell him so. THE DAY HIKARI DISAPPEARS!THE DAY, WE SEARCH UNTIL TOMMROW!FAREWELL, TSURUGI . They are emotional people and express the emotion either openly or keep them buried depending on whether they trust you. NEVER believe what people tell you, let them show you. it was monday and he said cannot because he has work. 2. He's angry. No casual bumping of hands or quick, friendly hugs. One day we are talking future the next day he drops me cold. Their understanding of others is deep and incisive. When alone, he may choose to focus his energy on something that builds up his self-esteem. They don't keep these parts of them locked up without a price, however. Let a Scorpio man know what he has done or said to upset you. When they feel threatened or fear they will be gravely injured, they often retreat. Reasons Scorpio Man Makes You Feel Hurt. If he completely stops communicating, he may have decided to cut all strings and end it. Saw him playing maybe 3 Times in that Years. I just recently started dating a Scorpio man, and I am a Capricorn woman. Taurus in love with scorp on December 05, 2018: He is giving me silent treatment for over than one year. But when I speak to him its just short answers. Trust issue or what i dont know. A Scorpio enjoys cinematic and classically romantic dates. He may not be saying much, but I guarantee he is listening. He will make an effort to spend time with you. Should i stay or should i go. does he has no respect for me as a human being? There is very little I expect and very little that fazes me but the moment I get the whiff of disloyalty I will stake out my game and take him down he will never come up. Well for about a year he has changed. If a Scorpio man likes you, you can glimpse his longing for you when you lock eyes with him. All is forgiven; the dog can tell the difference between a purposefully placed foot and an accidental injury. Long story short - i asked him whether he was seeing someone and he replied yes, but he only went out for one date only. So we've been checking our snapchat stories which he only posted two and so did I. I feel like my situation is probably number 5 but sometimes I get a feeling he will try to contact me one day idk. What do you guys think??? Also of pushing someone away as fear rejection so will self sabotage in order to control outcome, which sadly always ends in pain. But when they do finally lash out, they do so in brilliant form. Due to Scorpio personality traits, he is introspective and independent. Should I be calling him or a. I pressuring him I really don't want to scare him or make him feel like I am trying to possess him. My Mom was diagnosed with Cancer December 4, 2013. We have both been under work stress. He will be more open and communicative with you. But I seriously think I am pregnant and am freaking out. Yes, this is a scorpio, who claims to be in a homosexual relationship yet he's this possessive and jealous of me. I bet you he will not like it very much and now he knows how you feel. But we can add that if that is who you want, there is no one else that will do. Even i cant meet any boy (friend) without his permission. I live in Wisconsin. But he still is withdrawing. Scorpio men are the intensely sexy men of the zodiac sign, they exude mysteriousness and a dark aura that makes women turn their heads around every time these men walk out of the room, deep beneath the hot and cold surface they project into the world, there lies extreme emotional intensity and burden, these men feel too much which can make them They are afraid of getting hurt by others, so they keep their thoughts and feelings private most of the time. Scorpios like to be in control of the relationship. They have to so that they don't feel guilty about retaliating. I can't have him and no one else will ever interest me again. Sometime i feel not to have a same sign mate. He wants all your thoughts to be about him, even if he wont admit to it or consider you 'sticky'he derives deep pleasure form the mere idea that he may be dominating all of your thoughts. The Venus/Jupiter link encourages you to look again at an old situation. So the time comes to hang out a second time and he doesnt respond to me for like 4 hours after we agreed to meet and then started asking me if he could trust me/if I trust him. our conversation was okay and we decided to meet up after i finished my final examination. When he gets offended, he will try to go about his usual routine in silence as a coping mechanism. A scorpio man will be faithful only if he is happy. This article is accurate and true to the best of the authors knowledge. In my opinion, we Scorpios take offhanded comments a bit too personally. Would appreciate your advice. It's where you go out and enjoy yourself. They may tell occasional white lies, but they can never truly pretend or fake, which means they often come off as overly blunt. He also had an additive personality. I didn't take him serious. He may have been looking for a specific chemistry and didn't find it. I love his jealous & possessiveness alot . Scorpio is the most emotionally vulnerable sign, yet when they put up their defences, no one can damage them. I am a Cancer girl but a very strong personality as well. I forgot to mention that he's really not good at communicating anything. but he did not even read my message for 2 weeks. He feels burned or embarrassed and has withdrawn to nurse his wounds. I should have given up but I still hope because I felt his love for me in his eyes. 1. When he opens up and tells you his secrets, it's one of the signs that a Scorpio man has feelings for you. All it comes down to is whether hes a nice guy and whether both of you treat each other right, if not then end the relationship and move on (irrespective of whether or not hes a Scorpio and whatever your sunsign is ) . My bf is soo hot and heavy everyday and then goes off the grid for no more than 48 hrs every so often, and it is usually cuz he is genuinely busy. Get ready to be asked about your whereabouts and what you're doing at the moment. Scorpios along with being secretive, mysterious, sensuous and what not are very emotional. So one of the things I said was 'it's not normal to not be able to communicate like a normal person at his age' and 'i felt disrespected and if i feel that way that probably means he is not for me, so he needs to carefully think if he really wants to be with me'. Does he seem intensely interested in you and your plansalmost coming off as a bit of a stalkerbut only to go off the grid completely before once again coming onto you as strongly as before? I have a huge problem I was dating my best friend who is a Scorpio and he was such an amazing man. and chat our daily activities..not all the time, but had great conversation with him. My Scorpio and I have been dating 3 1/2 months. The Highs. but sometimes he shuts me out of his life for at least 3 or 4 days. Sort of know if it will work out or not early on and dont want to play games anymore, but can still be attraction. When we met in person, sparks flew. 21 Signs A Scorpio Man Shows When In love 1. I have determined that a Scorpio's withdrawal usually has one of five causes (though there may be more I have not yet discovered): 1. I told him many times I wasn't a good communicator but he said that's okay. because both times I had said something that was questioning if I'll leave him he would want to end it first. I am hoping he will talk to me soon. Scorpio in love is intense, loving, and enveloping. And then. This approach may work for some signs, but on a Gemini man, it will have the opposite of the desired effect. . I have no idea what happened with my scorpio male.he just suddenly changed. He did ask me many Time to come see him at the Gigs but i never went until last June. While others are mumbling and crumbling and grumbling, he is at his forceful, courageous best. He came way strong and even texted to me that he could see being married to me. My friends think I should get an abortion to save myself the heart ache but I could never do that! Without going into why he withdraws in the first place (more about that later), this is the best explanation I can give you for the stalker-to-stranger extremes. How can u fall in Love with somebody else when u still be living with her. He will not talk about it and shuts right down. Sorry to be so gruesome but if you cannot handle the heat stay out of the kitchen. He is working independently, so he is working lots, busy with his Music Needs and is living one Hour away from me, living with somebody together. Karthik Kashyap from India on July 17, 2012: KrisNick09: I think I may be in situation 3. I can guarantee you one thing: a Scorpio waits. I want to add he is younger than me in 6 years, he is 29. I really need help tho, here is the problem. We do everything together, but I am just a "friend" no PDA etc.. which is 110% fine with me. If your Scorpio is the type to pop up whenever he needs something, only to disappear again, then stoop to his level - give him the old cold shoulder. But then I apologized and he responded that he needed to think about all this and take a time out for that, so he thought about it for 3-4 days, then he called me and I didn't respond and he left a voicemail saying that we shouldn't see each other anymore. When it's clear that your Scorpio man has gone from one hundred to zero, shift your focus. Now i know he is so powerful , he is so confidence . I hope I helped!! You might not see the arc, but it's there. If a Scorpio man suddenly disappears with no explanation, he could just not be interested in you. Angel Ward from Galveston, TX on July 25, 2012: I agree 1000% And the comment with a scorp's mom in the hospital, there is always some drama going on, that's a great excuse for withdrawal, to distract the sig. Scorpio intuits the sensitivity behind the facade and becomes intrigued. Give her some space for her to get past the upset. I cry a lot, he knows but i won't show him my Tears. We'll cover: Scorpio is a fixed, feminine, water sign. 1. Mind you, it will not be a vacation by the sea. I understand it to a Point. Stay calm Final Words When a Scorpio Man Ignores You Does Scorpio man stops communicating all of sudden? Avoiding eye contact. They will want to think things over before making a decision. P.S. his job is very demanding and unable to come to see me so I am the one that goes and visits him. They value honesty and enjoy being . then his txts are so short without endearment. Very true. I just had the longest three days of my life. Never put them under pressure , they are so sensetive . I would wait for him although as a Cancer I am really not good at waiting on people. Our Love is real we know it from the Start. During Mom's chemo and ups and downs, he was there for me any time of the day (he lives in Ireland and is 6 hours ahead) and I could call him at any time and he was there. Piscean men don't like to end relationships and will simply disappear, whether completely or in part. :( scorpions will love u or they will hate u. Libra- I can totally relate to if scorpio man doesn't respond to my texts, I think he's done. He finally said "LEAVE ME ALONE, I DID THIS EASY AND CLEAN" Stop calling stop texting. The Scorpio man has a strong sense of self-esteem and is passionate about what he does. That's yet another "secret" he'll keep from you. If he tells you he likes or lives you and then disappears, find someone else! My friends think I shouldn't expect a text every day, since he has things to do and so do I. I just guess I'm real needy right now. This is #1 for a reason. I never seen this side of him. I reciprocate but I don't take things to heart. He will not tell me what is wrong. Basically we only knew each other online and have made plans to be in a couple months. We were walking one day and he asked about my stress etc..I made the mistake of telling him how I got my feelings hurt about christmas, but was fine after he explained himself , I also explained that because of the stress I had caused him before I didnt want to share all the work stress I had had so I have been talking to a couple of other friends (guy friends) he shut down. So when he is thinking about you, it is all about you. A few weeks ago we started talking again and admitted our feelings to each other. And I can do this over a protracted period of time such as few years. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 17, 2012: I have been hub browsing and it seems that a lot of people are having trouble with their scorpios. Just in more obvious and aggravating ways! I dont know what to do? My brother is a scorp, a close friend is, I have it as my rising sign, so I catch ,myself holding many of these qualities as well. LeAve Nd then reappear in my life. I am so glad to hear that everyone is having the same concerns. It's a shady, passive aggressive way of breaking up with. So I have made it a point to not bring that into "us" I also invited him to hangout with my friends for Thanksgiving and with family for Christmas. BUT i get irritated by his over caring and controlling nature. His eyes have been locking in on you. 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